What to Say If Feeling Unsafe with a Third‑Party Tow Operator | MyMechanic
Roadside stress makes hard conversations harder; clear, respectful words protect safety and prevent unwanted tows or surprise handovers— use these short scripts to pause pressure, demand written details, and keep control of the vehicle, with MyMechanic providing verified coordination so a trusted operator—not a chaser—shows up.
If the tow is unsolicited and persistent
“Thank you, but no tow is authorised. Please do not attach any equipment.”
“I’m waiting for my arranged provider and will not proceed without written confirmation.”
“Please step back from the vehicle. I’m inside with doors locked and am contacting assistance now.”
To request identity and create distance
“Please provide your company name and truck plate number from a safe distance.”
“Leave a contact card at the kerb. I will get in touch if help is needed.”
“No handling of the vehicle until details are confirmed by message.”
To require written confirmation before any action
“Send destination, inclusions, and your operator name by message. I’ll review before deciding.”
“Without written confirmation, I do not consent to loading or movement.”
“Destination must be specific. ‘Nearby workshop’ is not acceptable.”
If pressure escalates
“I do not consent. Any further insistence and I will call the authorities.”
“I am recording details for my report. Please maintain distance.”
“Stop touching the vehicle. I will speak only to the assigned provider.”
If towing becomes unavoidable but trust is low
“Tow only to a well‑lit, public location for holding. Final workshop decision will be made later.”
“Before loading, write destination and inclusions on the job card. I will photograph it and your truck plate.”
“Use wheel straps and ramps. Do not use suspension hooks. If unavailable, I will wait for my arranged provider.”
Documentation to protect handover
Photograph four corners, visible damage, wheels/tyres, dashboard warnings, and a wide scene shot.
